Sept. 28, 2026

The sex we were taught: Desire, pleasure, and the orgasm gap

The sex we were taught: Desire, pleasure, and the orgasm gap

What if much of what we’ve been taught about sex — what desire should feel like, what “good” sex looks like, and what counts as pleasure — is wrong?

In this episode, Camille sits down with Tamilynn Edwards, Board-Certified Clinical Sexologist, sex coach, and founder of the Sensuality Coach Clinic, for a candid conversation about the expectations that shape women’s sexuality.

They unpack the orgasm gap, spontaneous vs. responsive desire, and why making orgasm the goal can turn sex into yet another performance. They also explore body image, mismatched desire, the impact of stress and hormones, and how to communicate what actually feels good.

It’s time to rethink the sex we were taught — and make pleasure our own.

Want to continue the conversation? Try Tamilynn’s free 2-Minute Mirror Practice: https://bookcoachtamilynn.square.site/your-2-minute-mirror-practice

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